Here's the scene you just went out with a totally cute guy on a date.Things were left on a positive note and the following day you just want to text him.Or maybe not because that would just be too pathetic and you will seem too needy...Ah!!!to text or not to text.
THE NEED!*grunts*
I think it's safe to say that this is one of the most common topics during brunch and on the run lattes with the girls.right?
Personally i ALWAYS play it cold and cool.I know it seems absolutely old fashioned and extreme feminists are going to say im dispecable and are going to make me the butt of their jokes but i believe a guy should be one to text first.That said it's always best to feel out the situation.If you and "cuteguy" have a mutual friend,ask if your friend heard anything about the date or you.Otherwise i think it's best to hold out.
But say you can't handle the wait and do decide to text him and don't get a responce,it's safe and smart to assume he isn't into you as you are or seemed to be.At this point take back your pride and delete his number and email but not facebook or twitter that will be just too bitter and you don't want to seem that way now.Do you?yep didn't so.
And if you chosee to hold out only for him to not get in contact then after 7days days delete his number and email,having him in your contact list will bring you bad luck.With this i feel that i should also mention deleting any contact mail and number to any guy who asked for your number,you exchanged numbers with only for him to go AWOL....delete.delete.press that button...take back your pride ;>
#itsmikaylaspeaking
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